粉雄救兵（2018）

Queer Eye S05E01

Part 5 May 10, 2021, 1:10 p.m.

which means that I was one of the pastors who got ordained and lived openly
也就是说在教会拒绝接纳我们的时候
during the time when the church was saying no.
我获得了任命并能公开以这个身份生活
The issues that you're having today, and the reason that
你现在遭遇的问题你之所以
you don't have the present
无法获得你想要的当下和未来
or the future you want is because of your past.
是因为你的过去
We have to figure out what got you to this place where you felt
我们要搞清楚是什么让你觉得
like an impostor,
自己是个骗子
so that we can come forward.
这样我们才能往前走
I had always avoided
我总是避免
saying that I was gay.
说出我是同性恋
Sure.
当然
Because of the church'sxa0lack of acceptance.
因为教会欠缺包容
But I feel held back
我的过去妨碍了我
by my past.
继续前进
And I feel like I can't be the kind of
我觉得自己无法成为
leader in the church,
教会的领袖
not just my own congregation, but in the church,
不只是我的会众而是在教会里
that I could be.
那种领袖
I keep running a negative script about myself
我一直对自己有负面的想法
in my head, because I didn't step up
因为我没有在酷儿群体
within the larger story of the queer community.
这个更大的背景下挺身而出
I haven't gotten over it.
我还没释怀
Your story and mine are not entirely different.
你的故事并非和我的完全不同
I know how it hurts.
我知道这种伤痛
I am very deeply sorry for the pain
你感受到这种痛苦
that you have felt.
我很难过
Our world needs you right now.
世界现在需要你
Yeah. It's calling you.
-是的 -它在呼唤你
There's not a month that goes by
每个月我都会收到
that I don't get messages
来自一些父母的信息和信件
and letters from parents who say, "My kids think they can't go to church,
他们会说 "我的孩子认为他们不能去教堂
but the good news that you put out online
但你在网上发布的好消息
makes me think that maybe there is a place for them in the future."
让我觉得他们将来也有可能有自己的天地"
There's a kid in my congregation.
我的会众里有个孩子
Yeah.
嗯
I've been waiting for him to come out since the first time I met him.
自从第一次和他见面我就一直等着他出柜
His mom and his grandma have been waiting for him to come out
他的母亲和奶奶从他4岁起
since he was four.xa0
就一直等着他出柜
He came out this year. Yes.
-他今年出柜了 -好啊
And I am just... elated
我只是...
that for him,
为他感到高兴
the one place that won't tell him
只有一个地方不会因为他是什么人
anything bad about who he is
而说出负面评论的
will be his church.
就是他的教会
Would you ever tell that kid in your congregation
你有没有跟那个孩子说
they didn't come out soon enough?
他应该更早出柜
No.
没有
So why do you tell yourself that, child of God?
那为什么你要这样对自己说神之子
Thank you.
谢谢
What's going on?
怎么了
I needed to hear that.
我需要听到这些
You have no idea.
你不明白
You're talking about the calling. Amen.
-你说的是召唤 -阿门
Whoo! You are right where you're supposed to be, brother.
你就在你该在的地方兄弟
You have no idea!
你都不知道
And I'm so glad,
我很高兴
'cause my shoulders are tired and there needs to be more of us.
因为我的肩膀累了需要更多像我们这种人
And Guy's in there, too. We need more, all the time.
-盖伊也在里面 -我们一直需要更多人
Every word of grace we say, it has an impact,
我们说的每句圣言都有影响
whether we ever see it or not.
不管我们看到与否
We are communicatingxa0constantly, God's love to other people.
我们时刻交流把神的爱传递予世人
And to do so as an out gay pastor, even without saying more than that,
作为公开的同性恋牧师要这样做毋庸多言
who you are preaches, and people need to hear that.
你是牧师人们需要听到
Just remember, in the days when it's hard,
只要记住在艰难的日子
that all pastors are struggling,
不管他们在脸书上看起来多振作
no matter how together they look on Facebook.
其实所有的牧师都在挣扎
And that you're not alone,
你并不孤单
that you have colleagues.
你有同事
And I don't come by myself, I come with a cloud of witnesses
我不是一个人而是和如云的见证人和圣徒一起
and saints who join me, in part, 'cause I brought you this.
我们给你带来了这个
This stole was passed down to 11 different pastors
这条披肩传给了11位不同的牧师
who were ordained
他们都是在教会的
outside of the official rules of the church,
传统规则之外被任命的
but because they felt called to serve openly and authentically.
但因为他们受到感召要公开和真诚地服务教众
And this stole gets passed down
这条披肩流传下来
because we know that we're a part
因为我们知道
of a long, faithful calling.
自己是这项漫长而忠诚使命的一部分
We don't think any of us should carry it alone and keep it.
我们认为任何人都不应该独自持有并保留它
So I'm gonna give it to you
所以我把它给你
and call you to this new calling that you're embracing,
呼唤你接受这个你所信奉的新召唤
with the hope that you will pass this along to the next person
希望你能把这个传递给下一个
who needs to hear that same message. And you'll know when it's right.
需要听到同样话语的人时机成熟时你自会明白
Right?
对吗
You are a part of the great calling
你是众多杰出牧师
of so many fabulous pastors.
所肩负伟大使命的一部分
You get to embody that freedom
你要体现在受洗时
that came to you in your baptism.
所获得的自♥由♥
And you get to preach openly
你可以用数代人
in ways that generations only dreamed of.
梦寐以求的方式公开布道
Thank you. Amen.
谢谢你阿门
The church, for me, is a place ofxa0hurt, judgment and pain.
对我来说教堂是关于伤害评判和痛苦的地方
That being said,
话虽如此
Noah clearly wants to make a safe space for everyone.
诺亚显然想为每个人创造一个安全的空间
If he can stopxa0a church from ever being a place
如果他能避免教会对日后的同性恋青年
of judgment, hurt and pain for future gay youth,
带来批判伤害和痛苦
it makes me wanna help.
我很想帮他
Welcome to The Duke Barber Co. We love them.
欢迎来到公爵理发师公♥司♥ 他们很受欢迎
After you.
请进
Thank you.
谢谢
This is our friend Will.
这是我们的朋友威尔
Will, this is Noah.
威尔这位是诺亚
Good to meet you. Hi, Noah, nice to meet you.
-幸会 -嗨诺亚幸会
Baby Noah is a pastor,
诺亚是个牧师
and he's a very nice man who we adore.
他是很好的人我们很崇拜他
Let's talk about your hair a little bit.
我们谈一下你的头发
I normally wear it fairly short.
我通常头发很短
I did for a while sport a nice bowl cut.
有段时间我剪了个漂亮的平头
Oh. Serving, like, friar realness.
噢呈现真正的修道士
Not today, Satan.
今天不行撒旦
I have been wondering, like, what might look the best for me.
我一直在想什么发型最适合我
I'm personally ready to say, like, au revoir.
我个人准备好说再见
I'm feeling short hair on top, but then gorgeous beard.
我要上面是短发但有漂亮的胡子
One way to make a beard give a little bit more of a polished look
有一种方法可以让胡子更有光泽
is when you have a barber who knowsxa0how to fade the beard
只要那个理发师知道怎样帮胡子褪色
to, like, the haircut.
就像理发一样
He's a gorgeous barber. Thank you.
-他是个很棒的理发师 -谢谢
It's gonna be great. Yep. Let's do it.
-一定没问题的 -来吧
All right. It's a very homoerotic back of your...
-好的 -这个背很有同性恋的感觉
This is very, like, strappy things. Yes. Major.
这个绑带是的专业
That's adorable.
太可爱了
What are you doing to get more parishioners?
你怎么吸引教众
We haven't done any significant advertising.
我们没有做任何重要的广♥告♥
Do you guys have foot traffic?
你们有客流量吗
I think we get a little bitxa0off of Facebook.
我们和脸书有点脱节
You know how people come to visit places now?
你知道人们现在怎么出行吗
It's Instagram. It's Twitter.
是照片墙推特
I've been talking with a couple friends to tutor me.
我跟几个朋友谈过他们有教我
I'll tutor you right now.xa0
我现在就教你
Part of planning your Instagram feedxa0is, like, doing series that people like.
策划你的照片墙动态就像是做人们喜欢的系列
Right. You could do a minute video,
-对 -你可以做一分钟视频