我们的生活

This Is Us S01E14

Part 4 Oct. 31, 2019, 11:11 a.m.

I'll be at my desk if you need me.
一定找你
I'm sure that I will.
你和海瑟有一腿吗
Are you having an affair with Heather?
你胡扯什么
Are you crazy?
我永远不会有外遇的
Huh? I would never have an affair.
我不会对我孩子做这种事
I wouldn't do that to my kids.
-那是怎么了 -什么
- So what then? - What?
到底怎么回事
What happened, huh?
别说你们俩只是疏远了
And don't tell me that you just, you drifted.
就是这样杰克
We did, Jack. Yeah?
我们疏远了感情淡了
We drift... yeah, we drifted, okay?
不是所有人都像你和丽贝卡
And not everyone's like you and Rebecca.
你想...
What do y...
想知道我的婚姻为什么会完蛋吗杰克
Do you want to know why my marriage ended, Jack?
对
Yeah.
好我记得一直以来
Okay. Um... for as long as I can remember,
我每天早上都会六点半起床为雪莉准备咖啡
I've woken up at 6:30 every day to make Shelly coffee,
加奶加两块糖
splash of milk, two sugars.
我会冲好给她端到床上
I would make it and bring it to her in bed.
她总是说她的一天
She says that her day doesn't even start
要从吸收了咖♥啡♥因♥才算开始
until she's got caffeine in her veins.
然后有一天我和往常一样
And then one day, woke up, 6:30...
六点半醒来为自己冲了杯咖啡
like always, and I made myself one.
可就是不想给雪莉冲咖啡
I just didn't feel like making Shelly one.
而最糟的是
And the worst part is...
她甚至都没察觉到
she didn't even notice.
我们开始忽视对方的存在杰克
We stopped noticing each other, Jack.
我们不再努力让彼此快乐
We stopped trying to make each other happy.
当意识到这点我们知道该结束了
When we realized that, we knew it was over.
我想每一对夫妻
Now, I think that every single couple
都会有很多次走到感情的岔路口
has a handful of these moments when you reach a crossroads.
只是有些出现得比较早比如第一次吵架
Just sometimes it happens early on, first fight...
也有些发生在十年后
sometimes it happens ten years in,
你们一周里每天晚上都要为倒垃圾的事
when you've had the same fight about taking out the trash
而大吵一架
every night for a week.
这种时候正是决定去留的契机
They're make or break, these moments.
你们要么...
And you either...
要么卷起袖子
you either roll up your sleeves
借此大吵一架要么...
and you fight for what you've got or...
要么就厌倦了继续争吵
you decide that you're tired...
然后选择放手
and you give up.
而当我不再为雪莉煮咖啡时
And I had one of these moments...
正是面临这样一个时刻
when I didn't make Shelly her coffee.
*我可爱的情人*
*My funny valentine*
*贴心幽默的情人*
*Sweet, comic valentine*
*你令我会心微笑*
*You make me smile with my heart.*
晚安伙计们谢谢大家
Good night, guys. Thanks.
好了周三去我那
All right, so, uh, Wednesday. Wednesday, my place.
你还好吗
Hey, uh, you okay?
有点心不在焉
You seem off.
我... 我没事
Yeah, I'm... I'm okay.
-只是最近事情有点多 -好吧
- I just have a lot on my mind. - All right.
也许这个消息能让你开心点
Well, uh, maybe this'll cheer you up.
-经纪人看了我们上周的演出 -是吗
- Booking agent saw us play last week. - Yeah?
希望我们加入东海岸巡演
Wants us to be part of an East Coast tour.
这场巡演只有我们乐队
It's just gonna be us,
以及其他几个优秀的爵士乐队参加
couple of other great jazz bands,
我们能登上真正的舞台演唱给观众听
we're gonna be playing on actual stages... to actual crowds.
本这真是太棒了
Ben, that's amazing.
就这点反应吗 "这真是太棒了"
That's it? "That's amazing"?
真的很棒
It's really great.
我...我得和杰克商量一下
I... I just have to talk to Jack
我是有家室的人了
because I have a family.
不能说走就走
I can't really just pick up and go.
丽贝卡你该去参加巡演
Rebecca, you deserve this.
如果杰克真心爱你他会理解的
If Jack really loves you, he'll understand.
不好意思如果杰克真心爱我
I'm sorry. If Jack really loves me?
-这是什么意思 -我不是...
- What is that? - I didn't...
我丈夫每天工作10至12个小时
You do realize my husband works ten, sometimes 12 hours a day,
回家时已经筋疲力尽了
and he comes home absolutely exhausted.
但自从我加入了乐队
And since I've joined this band,
他就包揽了全部家务
he's picked up all the slack at home
就为了让我做自己想做的事
just so I could be here.
我两个儿子都打橄榄球
Both of my boys play football,
所以他每天都提前下班
and he leaves work early every time
只为了不错过他们两个人的比赛
so he can be there for each and every one of their games.
对了他俩不在同一支球队里
And they're on different teams, by the way.
但他想让儿子们知道
Just so they know that
爸爸会一直在那里支持爱护他们
someone's in the stand there to support them and love them.
我们在外面演出时
When we play that piano gig,
他已经上♥床♥休息了
and he's already gone to bed,
但总会在床头柜上给我放一杯水
he always leaves me a glass of water on my bedside table,
因为他担心我喝的水不够多
'cause he's worried I'm not drinking enough water,
尤其是我唱歌♥的时候
especially when I'm singing.
所以拜托你本别说什么
So, please, Ben, please do not tell me
如果杰克真心爱我他会怎么做之类的话
what Jack would do if he really loved me.
我丈夫是个了不起的超级英雄
My husband's a freaking superhero,
你根本不知道自己在讲什么
and you have no idea what you're talking about.
-好吧抱歉 -没事
- Okay, sorry. - It's okay.
我越界了
I overstepped.
没事
It's okay.
-晚安 -晚安
- Have a good night. - Okay.
我爸去世后我做了这个来纪念他
So I made this for my father after he passed away.
这叫做记忆盒
It's called a memory box,
我把很多他最爱的小物件
and I put a lot of his favorite little things
以及能让我想起他的东西放进盒子里
and things that remind me of him,
比如...
like, um...
天呐比如...这张菜单
Oh, my Gosh. Like this... menu.
每次我们去牙买♥♥加看望外公外婆时
Oh, my dad used to take me to this restaurant
他总会带我去这家餐厅
every time we went to visit my grandparents in Jamaica.
而且老板总会送我们一盘牛尾
And he always got the oxtail special.
贝丝
Beth.
孩子们帮爸爸把厨房♥的食物整理好
Girls, help daddy unload the groceries in the kitchen.
现在就去
Now, please.
谢谢
Thank you.
怎么回事
What's going on?
记忆盒
Memory box.
我跟西蒙提到可以做一个
I told Simon about doing one,
他建议我和女儿们试着一起做
and he recommended I try it with the girls,
帮助她们缓解悲伤
help 'em cope with their grief.
没什么好悲伤的贝丝
There's nothing to grieve, Beth.
我爸还活着
The man's alive.
兰德尔我们父亲都是在
Randall, neither of us was prepared
我们毫无准备时死去的
when our father died.
我希望我的孩子们能做好准备
I-I want my babies to be ready.
理应这样
They deserve that.
能别再提"死"这个字
Will you please stop saying things like "Died"
或者"去世" "生命终结"之类的吗
or "Passing" or "End-of-life"?
好吧
Okay.
又穿上这件酷酷的衬衫了
Got your cool-guy shirt on?
但穿这件去看象棋比赛太过正式了
It's a little much for a chess tournament.
我得和客户应酬
I got to take a client out.
今晚吗不行
Tonight? No.
-绝对不行 -不贝丝你不懂
- No way. - No, Beth, you don't understand.
桑杰把我逼得很紧
This guy Sanjay is kicking my ass.
对但照顾你父亲
Yeah, and so is taking care of your father
和两个吓坏的女儿同样重要
and our two freaked-out daughters.
不行今晚以家庭优先
No. I call marriage tonight.
抱歉宝贝
I'm sorry, baby.
-我需要你 -贝丝
- I need my teammate. - Beth.
家庭