成长不容易（2018）

Grown-ish S03E10

Part 1 April 1, 2021, 9:05 p.m.

Dating...
约会
the emotional minefield we all had to navigate.
我们都必须穿越的情感雷区
And for Ana, after a series of not-so-amazing experiences
至于Ana 在经历了过去一连串
with guys in the past,
跟前男友不太愉快的经历后
she had understandably suffered from some dating PTSD,
她产生约会PTSD也是可以理解的
so she decided to ease into her relationship with Javi.
现在她决定和Javi慢慢来
Thank you. I had a really good time.
谢谢你我玩得很开心
Me, too.
我也一样
Keep waiting to get sick of you, and I don't.
一直等着想厌烦你但我烦不起来
Oh, well, that's too bad, 'cause I'm so sick of you.
噢那可挺糟因为我可是烦透你了
Oh. Yeah.
这样是啊
And even though Ana was a little hesitant
每当Ana因为害怕受伤
when it came to being vulnerable,
而犹豫不决的时候
Javi kept surprising her in all the right ways.
Javi总能用对的方式来给她惊喜
Well, uh, looks like you are home safe.
好啦既然你已经安全到家
So, I should probably...
我差不多该走了
Yeah. Yeah.
是是
Good night.
晚安
Good night.
晚安
But after getting to know him
但是在感觉已经花了很久很久
for what felt like forever...
来了解他之后
Hey, Javi?
嘿 Javi
There was only one thing left
她只剩下一件事
for her to become acquainted with.
想去深入了解了
I'm sorry. Um...
抱歉呃
Uh, we should stop.
我们得停下
What? What's wrong? Is everything okay?
怎么了有什么问题吗
Yeah.
是有问题
Uh, no.
呃没有
Um...
嗯
I-I gotta be up front with you about something.
有些事我得跟你坦白
Oh, my God. You have a girlfriend.
我天呐你有女朋友了
I knew it.
我就知道
No.
不是
Oh! You're having a flare-up?
哦你是犯病了吗
Wow. I knew it. Uh...
哇哦我猜就是呃
Ooh.
哦
I recently, like...
我最近
I don't know, six months ago...
我也不清楚大概六个月前
made a vow to abstain from sex.
发过誓要禁欲
I'm sorry. What?
抱歉你说啥
As it turned out,
结果就是
one of Ana's fears had come true.
Ana的担忧之一变成了现实
I'm celibate.
我是禁欲者
There was someone else in Javi's life,
Javi的生活中的确有第三者
and that someone else was God.
这个小三就是上帝
I'm sorry. I just don't believe you.
抱歉我不信你
If you don't want to have sex with me, then just say so.
要是不想跟我做直说就好了
Ana, are you kidding me?
Ana 你在开什么玩笑
I'm clearly struggling here.
我也在跟自己斗争
Well, then, why is this
好既然这样
the first time that you're telling me this?
为什么现在你才告诉我
'Cause it's not exactly something that comes up casually.
因为这不是随便就有机会说的啊
Like, "Hey, I don't have sex.
就像 "嘿我不做♥爱♥
You want to split an appetizer?"
你想一起吃这道开胃菜吗"
I am truly sorry.
我真的很抱歉
I'm sorry I didn't tell you earlier.
抱歉之前没跟你说
I am sorry that I am just springing this on you.
抱歉我这么突然告诉你
I'm sorry that we can't have sex.
抱歉我们不能做
I just wish you'd told me
我真希望你告诉过我了
so I didn't embarrass myself
这样我就不会抢着扒掉衬衫
by preemptively ripping my shirt off.
来让自己难堪
Honestly, I think I was just worried
说实话我之前就是担心
that it would change things
这事会改变现状
or that you would walk away.
或者你会离开
Okay, um...
好了呃
I am gonna walk away...
我现在就要离开
Mm-hmm.
嗯哼
...to go put on another shirt,
去穿另一件衬衫
because this is just a lot for me to process right now
因为这对我来说太难接受了
while I'm just standing here in my... my date bra.
尤其还是在我穿着战斗胸衣站在这里的时候
So... excuse me.
所以失陪
Yep.
好
I gotta go. Oh, no, no, no.
我得走了哦别啊
Stop playing. You know I have that meeting in 10 minutes.
别闹了你知道我十分钟后还有会呢
Forget the meeting. Okay? The BSU's a joke.
别管那个会了好吧黑人学生会就是个笑话
Uh, a joke that you used to be treasurer of.
呃你以前还是财务干事呢
Yeah, until I got sick of
是直到我受够了
being around a bunch of fake-ass woke people
跟一群虚情假意的
who did nothing but plan barbecues...
除了计划烧烤和演讲之夜
...and spoken word nights.
就什么都不会做的人相处之后
They literally would argue about
他们还真的会争论
who's gonna bring the potato salad to the next meeting.
下一次会议谁带土豆沙拉这事
Stop being a hater, okay?
别黑人家了好吗
At least we're getting together to discuss some important issues
至少我们会聚在一起讨论大事
and engage with each other.
还会彼此接触
That's what I'm trying to do, babe.
这也是我正在努力做的宝贝
Trying to engag e... nakedly,
努力去接触不♥穿♥衣服的那种
now, here, in this bed.
现在就在这儿在这张床上
How about I promise to engage nakedly with you later
不如我保证等下跟你光着"接触"
if you come with me to this meeting now?
只要你现在和我一起去开会
You seriously think I can be bribed with sex?
你真以为嘿♥咻♥就能收买♥♥我了
Pass me my Crocs, would you?
请把我的洞洞鞋拿来
Wait. So, celibate, as in no sex?
等下禁欲者就是不做♥爱♥的那种
No mouth stuff? No hand stuff?
没口♥活♥ 也没手活
Yeah, Vivek, much like how you live your life.
是 Vivek 就像你现在这样
Correction... there is one who is now consistently
纠正你一下现在有个人
engaging me in sexual intercourse.
一直都跟我保持着炮♥友♥关系
Huh? Your boy's outchea.
哈咱在外混得可开了
And in there.
在那儿也一样
Ew.
恶
All right. That's enough of his lies.
好了听够他扯谎了
Look, I don't get what the big deal is.
听着我觉得这没什么大不了的
You love God, too.
你也爱上帝啊
Yes, because I was raised a good Catholic.
是因为我从小就是虔诚的天主教♥徒♥
And even though I don't go to church as much as I should...
即使我不怎么去教堂
Look, in my mind, this whole celibacy thing is...
是这样我认为这种禁欲的事
reserved for priests and nuns.
是神父和修女专属的
Mm.
嗯
But Javi just...
但是Javi就是
loves God and wants to...
太爱上帝还想要
quiet the distractions so he can hear Him more clearly.
缄默这些干扰这样他就能更清楚地听到他的声音
Wow. Now I want to [bleep] him.
哇哦现在我想上他了
I mean, you can try.
你可以试试看
Look, as someone who is, again, consistently getting it in,
听着作为一个一直都有在嘿♥咻♥的人来讲
your guy's either crazy or some sort of superhero.
你们要么就是疯了要么就是某种超级英雄
Okay, how long are we going to entertain this charade
行了我们要假装
that Vivek is having sex?
Vivek有爱可做多久
What's your endgame here, bro?
你什么时候玩够兄弟
Whatever. Okay, my point is,
随便好啦我的重点是
all guys have this drumbeat in our heads,
男人们脑海里都响着鼓点
telling us we need sex, okay?
说着我们需要性好吧
The one that goes "I... need... to... bust.
就像这样"我要高潮
Here. There.
这这那那
Everywhere."
所有地儿"
Bye, losers.
拜了霉女们
Okay, well, it seems like your problem might just solve itself.
好了看起来你的问题可能会自己解决
One more sexy date night in that El Camino,
再在那辆雪佛兰里面来场火♥辣♥约会
and he just might break.
他大概就会自己破戒了
Yeah.
是啊