喜新不厌旧（2014）

Black-ish S04E02

Part 3 Dec. 23, 2020, 4:49 p.m.

The sooner we figure out the right medication for you,
我们越早搞清楚最合适你的药物
the sooner you will start feeling like yourself again.
就能越早让你找回原来的自己
No, you know what? I-I can get through this.
不其实吧我自己可以挺过去的
I d-- I don't want medication.
我不我不想接受药物治疗
Obviously, the decision is yours,
显然决定权在你手中
but postpartum depression is a mood disorder.
但产后抑郁是一种情绪失调
It's not something you can just power through,
它不是靠坚强就能撑过去的
and it is nothing to feel ashamed of.
而且完全不应因此而羞愧
Can I still breastfeed?
那我还能哺乳吗
'Cause that's really important to me.
这对我来说真的很重要
Plus, breastfeeding helps her lose the baby weight,
而且哺乳还能帮她减掉生孩子时攒的体重
and we want to make sure we keep that going.
所以我们想确保我们能继续哺乳
What? I'm your advocate.
怎么了我可是你的支持者
My God.
天啊
Nursing's completely safe on the one I'm thinking of.
在我看来哺乳是绝对安全的
It takes time to find the right dosage of medication,
找到合适的药物剂量需要时间
but this is a good first step.
但这是一个好的开始
Uh...
呃
So, does this mean that she'll stop crying
那么这是不是意味着以后她看见我
every time she sees me?
就不会再哭哭啼啼的了
I'm not entirely convinced that's the postpartum.
我并不完全确定那是因为产后抑郁
Hey.
嘿
Hey.
嘿
How are the "Thank you" notes going?
感谢卡写得怎么样了
Good.
不错
Here.
你看
"Thank you for the dumb wood thing
"感谢您送的破木制品
that has already been thrown away.
它已经被扔掉了
Regards, Rainbow Johnson."
祝好 Rainbow Johnson"
Okay. Are they all that harsh?
等等全部都这么刻薄吗
No.
不啊
Here.
看这张
"Babies hate pewter spoons. Kill yourself."
"婴儿们讨厌锡汤勺自杀吧你"
That was my gift!
那是我的礼物
Oh, then you saved me a stamp.
哦那你帮我省了一张邮票
Hey, babe. You look great.
嘿亲爱的你真好看
How you feeling?
心情如何
It's been two days, okay?
这才刚刚两天好吗
So I know you mean well, but you have to stop asking.
我知道你本意是好的但你别问了行吗
Cool, cool. I totally understand.
好好我完全明白
Okay. Hey, how about we take a run together?
那就好嘿那你想一起去跑个步吗
You know, because the doctor said
因为医生说了
it might make you feel better if...
这可能会让你觉得好一些
Please stop trying to fix me.
拜托别再试着治愈我了
Okay.
好
Okay, I'm -- I'm gonna go get the baby.
好我我去看看孩子
Are you sure you want to leave her alone with that child?
你确定要让她和孩子独处吗
They left me alone with you for years.
他们让我和你独处了好多年呢
Yeah, well, I didn't go to some quack doctor
是但我又没去看庸医
because I was mentally ill with some made-up disease.
因为我没得过什么编出来的精神病
It's a real thing that lots of women get.
它是很多女性都可能得的真病
And Bow is taking medicine to get better.
Bow现在正在服药想要治好它
Wait a minute.
等等
She's doing drugs and nursing my grandson?
她磕着药还给我的孙子喂奶
She's not doing drugs.
她没有嗑药啊
Dre, a lady at church nursed on drugs,
Dre 教堂里有个女人就边嗑药边喂奶
and her son can only make friends with loose dogs.
她儿子只能和流浪狗交朋友
Her milk was poison.
她的母乳有毒
So you're a doctor now?
所以现在你是医生了
Because you were smoking a cigarette
因为在我出生的同时
while I was being born.
你还在抽烟
So was the doctor!
医生也在抽啊
We finished babyproofing!
我们排除了婴儿隐患
Yeah, the house couldn't be safer.
没错这间房♥子极度安全
DeVonté isn't gonna get into anything.
DeVonté不会被任何东西伤到
Well, I'm glad you guys handled everything.
我很高兴你们搞定了一切
I mean, I didn't even think to do any of that, so...
我都没想过要做这些所以
Why didn't I think of that?
我为什么没想到呢
I am the mom.
我可是他妈妈啊
Why isn't she getting any better?
她怎么没一点好转
She will. She's gonna be okay.
她会的她会变好的
Are you sure?
你确定吗
She put sunscreen and a steak knife
她今天把防晒霜和牛排刀
in Diane's lunchbox today.
放进了Diane的午餐盒里
Turns out I needed both at recess.
结果发现休息时我都用得上
I swear to God and sweet black Jesus,
我对上帝和伟大的黑耶稣发誓
y'all put a lock on one more damn thing in this house,
你们再给这房♥子里的任何一个东西上锁
and I will whip all four of your asses at the same time!
我会同时抽你们四个的屁♥股♥
Oh, he's sleeping.
他睡着了
How'd you do that?
你怎么做到的
I gave him a little something to eat,
我给他吃了点东西
knocked him right out.
直接就让他睡过去了
Wait.
等等
Why -- Why is all of this still here?
为什么这些奶都还在
Yeah, I gave him some formula.
我给他喝了一些婴儿奶粉
What?
什么
Ruby...
Ruby...
he's never had formula.
他从没喝过奶粉
I-I'm just breastfeeding.
我我还在哺乳
Well, I thought your milk might be keeping him awake,
我觉得可能是因为你的母乳他才睡不着
on account of the medication.
因为有药物作用
And from the looks of it, I was right.
现在看来我是对的
Are you kidding me?
你在逗我吗
What the fuck?
他妈的什么意思
Okay, just calm down.
好了冷静
No, I'm not gonna calm down, Ruby.
不我才不要冷静 Ruby
You know what? I put up with so much from you.
你知道吗我忍♥了你好多好多
You make fun of my hair. You make fun of my clothing.
你取笑我的头发你取笑我的衣服
You make fun of my cooking. You make fun of my blackness.
你取笑我的厨艺你还取笑我的黑人程度
It's more your whiteness.
应该是你的白人程度
I'm not joking!
我没有在开玩笑
You walk all over me, and I let you.
你肆意践踏我我都没怎样
In my home!
这可是我家
But you've crossed a line.
但是你越界了
Hey, I was just trying to help.
嘿我只是想帮忙
No, you weren't.
不你不是
You're never just trying to do anything, Ruby.
你想的从来都不是别的 Ruby
You were trying to make me feel bad.
你就是想让我不舒服
Oh, come on. Hey, hey, hey. What's going on?
拜托嘿嘿嘿怎么了
No, stay out of it. Stay out of it, Dre.
不别掺和别掺和 Dre
Do you think this is easy for me, Ruby?
你觉得这对我来说很简单吗 Ruby
Do you?
是吗
Motherhood is the most natural thing for a woman.
对女人来说做母亲是最具自然性的事情
And I've had four kids,
我有四个孩子
and somehow, I am struggling right now.
不知为何我现在十分挣扎
I cannot seem to make enough milk.
我的母乳不太够
I feel filled with anxiety. I feel weak.
我充斥着焦虑情绪我很脆弱
I feel embarrassed because of all the things that I can't do.
我感到羞愧因为那么多事我都没法做
And you are making me feel so much worse!
你还在让我感觉更糟
Okay, now, it was just a little formula.
好了只是一些婴儿奶粉而已
Oh, my God. Don't you think maybe you're overreacting?
我的天你不觉得你有些反应过度了吗
I'm not. I'm just not.
我没有我没有
I'm not.
我没有
And you need to get out of my home,
你要离开我家
because there's no way I'm gonna get better while you're here.
因为你在这儿我就没办法好起来
So you need to leave, and you cannot live here anymore.
所以你得离开你不能再住在这儿了
You need to go.
你得走了
Andre, she's acting crazy.
Andre 她这是在发疯
And you need to talk to her, okay?
你得跟她好好谈谈好吗
No, Mama.
不妈妈