犹太媒婆（2023）

Jewish Matchmaking S01E07

Part 5 May 5, 2023, 3:34 p.m.

Okay, so you can do this?
我想没问题
I think I can do it.
要在哪裡签名?
Where do I sign? Where do I sign? - [Aleeza laughs]
在这裡吗? -你签吧
Do I sign right here? - I'll take your signature, yeah!
太好了
I love it.
搞定
There we go.
造型师帮我挑的衣服有这条牛仔裤
The clothes I'm wearing are from the stylist.
是在我们去的那家店买♥♥的
These jeans came from the store we were at.
还有这件T恤,也是同一家店的
This T-shirt came from the store we were at.
这是我的旧衣服,但...
And I've had this outfit before,
我没照以前的方法穿搭
but I switched out the old things I used to wear with it,
所以这套服装有新有旧
so it's a bit of old and a bit of new.
造型师说
The stylist told me that
我的尺寸是大号♥,不是超大号♥
I was a large and not an extra-large.
我想如果我以前就穿大号♥
I think if I was wearing a large,
我早就结婚
I would've been married and
也生小孩了
with children by now a long time ago,
但我们修正了这个问题
but now we corrected that issue,
所以希望往后会顺利
so hopefully it'll be smooth sailing now.
(荷普)
我很期待见到荷普,希望如此
I'm looking forward to meeting Hope. I hope...
妳就是荷普吧?
I'm guessing you're Hope.
你好
Hey!
没错,我就是 -妳好吗?我是史都华
Yes, I am! - How are you? I'm Stuart.
希望我们对话顺畅而不是变得像访谈一样
Hopefully the conversation just flows and doesn't fall into that interview mode.
妳会在芝加哥待多久?
So how long are you in Chicago for?
只有今晚
Just for tonight.
妳常旅行吗?
Do you travel much?
我常去以色列
Actually I've traveled to Israel a lot.
妳做哪方面的教育工作?
What is it that you do with educ...
我在非营利组织工作
So I work in nonprofit.
负责一个小型课后专桉
I run a small after-school program.
跟我说说那个专桉吧
So explain the after-school program a little bit.
那是宗教机构的专桉
So it's at a religious institution,
我规划了一个...
and so, I put together a--
非犹太教机构?
Not Jewish? - It's a Jewish institution.
是犹太教机构 -好的
Okay. - You know,
我显然不是正统派
obviously I'm not Orthodox.
否则今晚就不会穿露肩洋装来见你了
I wouldn't be wearing a dress with my shoulders showing to you tonight,
但...我注重犹太教的文化面与灵性面
but yeah, I'm just culturally and spiritually Jewish.
我本来想穿露肩的衣服
I was thinking of wearing something with my shoulders showing,
但我的犹太教信仰阻止了我
but my it's my Judaism that prevented me from doing that.
我有点失望
我会想看的
I'm a little disappointed. I'd have liked to have seen that.
没问题
Not a problem.
你已经逗我笑了
Well, you're making me laugh already.
那是个好开始
Well, that... that's a good start. -
说到工作,我拥有一家公♥司♥
So what I do, I own a company
叫做“学者学习用品”
called Scholastic School Supplies.
我靠它支应生活我在音乐方面从来没赚过多少钱
It pays the bills. I've never made an appreciable amount of money in music,
但我有在表演也在筹备第二张唱片
but I do play gigs. I'm working on my second record.
那是我的热情所在 -真酷
That's cool. - It is something I'm passionate about.
那你会弹什麽乐器?
So what instruments do you play?
我会弹吉他
弹钢琴,也会唱歌♥
I play guitar. I play piano. I sing.
我也会弹一点吉他
I play a little guitar myself.
那在音乐方面影响妳的有谁?
Oh, so tell me, who are your musical influences?
我喜欢营火...
Well, I'm more of the campfire...
我喜欢坐在营火边弹唱民谣
You know sit-around-the-campfire kind of girl playing folk music,
所以我通常喜欢这类歌♥手
so that's usually sorta my cup of tea.
我来猜猜影响妳的有谁,好吗? -好啊
I'll tell you your influences, okay? - Yeah.
你猜
Guess.
我要猜了但我得先洞悉妳一番
I'm about to, but I have to read you well.
我想妳应该喜欢女歌♥手
I'm thinking you go for the female artists.
像是琼妮米契
Joni Mitchell.
卡洛金
Carole King.
妳都告诉我了,我要怎麽猜?
How will I guess it if you tell it to me?
还有詹姆斯泰勒
James Taylor.
妳一定要有营火才能表演音乐吗?
Now do you need the fire to play the music?
如果没有营火,妳还能表演吗?
If I take the fire away, are you still able to play?
还是可以
Uh, I can still play.
我们的约会很有趣
The date was fun.
史都华很好聊
Stuart was super easy to talk to.
他很风趣
He was funny.
有着很搞笑的幽默感
Like, he has a very funny sense of humor.
反应挺快的
It's a little witty.
他问了很多有趣的问题
Um, he asked really interesting questions.
我想要找到对的犹太人对象最难的是
I think the hardest thing about finding a Jewish match
你得找到...
is finding the right match
文化和灵性上跟你契合的人
culturally and spiritually.
我带着开放的心态赴约
I'm coming here with an open mind
看看会如何
and seeing where it goes.
妳只跟犹太人约会吗?
Would you only date a Jewish person?
如果有合适对象我偏好跟犹太人约会
I'd prefer to date Jewish if I found the right person.
我觉得那是...
I feel it's a
加分条件 -没错
check in the plus column. - Yeah.
犹太教在我的成年生活中没什麽分量
Judaism was... not been a big part of my adult life.
我大概永远都不会变得超虔诚,但...
I'm never gonna be rel... super religious, but--
任何学者都会告诉你
Any scholar, they would tell you,
重点在于问题而不是答桉
有意思
it's more about the questions than the answers.
我一直是...
Interesting. I was always the one,
像以前读高中,老师教我们代数时
like, in algebra in high school when they would teach us,
我会问:“这几时用得到?”
I'd be like, "When are we gonna use this?"
老师会说 “如果要挖洞,你得测量...”
And the teacher's like, "Well, if you have to dig a hole and you have..."
我会觉得如果哪天真的要挖洞
I'm like, you know, "When the day comes that I have to do that,
到时再担心就好
I'll worry about it then, but why do
我又何必...
I have to do all..."
我向来是这样...
I was always--
你能运用代数的机会
Well, you probably don't use algebra the way
大概不像运用犹太教那麽多
you could probably use Judaism.
我认为犹太教有很多值得学习的道德价值
I think there's a lot of good moral values that you can take from Judaism.
妳是上犹太教小学之类的?
You went to Jewish, like, grade school and everything?
我上希伯来语学校和主日学校
Hebrew school and Sunday school,
然后在神学院拿到宗教教育硕士学位
and I did get my master's degree at a seminary in religious education.
好的,对...
Oh, okay. Yeah, um...
我同时喜欢犹太教的学术面和灵性面
I like the academic side of it as much as the spiritual side.
我对十诫的想法是...
I mean, my feeling on the Ten Commandments is,
如果你需要十诫
if you need those Ten Commandments
来阻止自己抢劫或杀人
to, like, not rob from me and not kill me,
那你该每天读那些东西
then you should read those things every freakin' day.
看来她对犹太教可能比我投入一点
It seems like she might be a little bit more invested in her Judaism
那不见得是坏事
than me, which isn't necessarily a bad thing.
我或许能从她身上学到很多
I could probably learn a lot from her.
但...
But something…
我们的沟通好像卡卡的
was just a little bit off with the communication, I felt.
我带了一张专辑送妳
I have a CD for you.
真不错,我看看
Nice. Look at this!
哇哦
Wow.
妳要的话,我可以帮妳签名
I'll autograph it for you if you want.
但没有签名的版本更珍贵、更难找
But the unsigned versions are much rarer and hard to come by.
我想要签名版 -好的
I would love a signed version. - Sure.
♪ Unbreakable ♪
♪ Na-na-na-na ♪
♪ Unbreakable ♪
♪ Na-na-na-na ♪
♪ Unbreakable ♪
♪ Na-na-na-na ♪ - ♪ Oh ♪
♪ Na-na-na-na ♪
♪ Yeah, na-na-na-na ♪
♪ Unbreakable ♪
♪ Na-na-na-na ♪
♪ Yeah, na-na-na-na... ♪
我从来没试过盲目约会
I've never been on a blind date.
从来没在约会之前
I've never been on a date without knowing what the other person looks like,
完全不知道对方的长相
兴趣或我们有没有共同朋友
what the other person's interests are, or do we have friends in common, you know?
这让我非常兴奋
And I'm actually really excited.
(艾丽莎)