康纳一家（2018）

The Conners S01E04

Part 3 Oct. 23, 2020, 2:08 p.m.

What? Why?
什么为什么
So that Mary will want to go.
这样的话玛丽就会去教堂
I'm sorry, Deej. You know, it's like,
我很抱歉迪吉只是
the whole organized religion thing,
这种有组织的宗教活动
it's up to you if you want to believe there's a God,
如果你想相信上帝你就信
but I can't turn my back on my atheism.
但我不能背叛自己的无神论理念
It's the only thing I believe in.
这是我唯一信仰的东西
Mary and Geena used to love to go to church together.
玛丽和吉娜以前很喜欢一起去教堂
This was huge for them.
这对他们是大事
And I wrecked it.
但我把它搞砸了
Well, then, you should fix it.
那你就应该修复它
Come on. Please?
求你了好吗
Oh, God.
我的上帝
Yes! Just like that,
对就像这样
only louder and like you believe it!
只是再大声一点就像你相信上帝一样
Just once to fake the kid out.
就一次把孩子骗出来
Thank you! Thank you!
谢谢谢谢
Yeah, get off me. Oh, sorry.
放开我对不起
And just so you know, it's gonna be me and Mark.
先告诉你到时候只有我和马克
Harris is doing community service for her school.
哈里斯正在做学校布置的社区服务
There's a red tide,
发生了赤潮
and she's shoveling dead fish out of Lake Michigan.
她正把死鱼铲出密歇根湖
Lucky.
真幸运
Welcome to the group, friend.
欢迎加入我们朋友
What's your name? Dan.
你叫什么丹
But everybody just keep going.
你们大家继续就行了
I'm good.
我不想说
That's okay.
没关系
No pressure to talk here.
不想说我们不会给你压力的
So, what brings you here, Dan?
那你为什么来这里丹
My wife died.
我妻子去世了
And?
然后呢
I'm sorry. Were you looking for something bigger?
不好意思你难道还想听更大的噩耗吗
No.
不
If you're like most of us here, you're in pain,
如果你和我们大多数人一样正处于痛苦中
and I just figured you needed someone to talk to.
我想你需要和别人谈一谈
That's what my family thinks.
这是我家人的想法
And seeing as how I just blew up
由于我对着一帮朋友
at a bunch of my best friends,
大发脾气
maybe they're right.
也许他们是对的
But I'd just like to listen for now.
但我现在只想听着
You know, we have a saying.
我们有句谚语
If you won't open up, we can't come in.
如果你不打开我们就进不来
What if I don't want you to come in?
如果我不想要你进来呢
I understand your fears, but I want you to know
我理解你的担忧但我想让你知道
I've been coming here for 20 years now,
我来这里已经20年了
and it really helps. Oh, my God,
这里真的有用我的上帝
I can't come back here for 20 years.
我不能持续来这里20年
I'll talk.
我说
What am I supposed to say?
我应该说什么
Tell us what's bothering you.
告诉我们你的困扰
I don't know.
我不知道
You know when you're a little kid,
当你是个小孩时
and they tell you in Sunday school
在主日学校他们告诉过你
to live right, be a good person, say your prayers,
过正常生活当个好人做祷告
and God will reward you?
上帝就会奖励你吗
I tried.
我试过了
I mean, I'm not just saying this.
不是字面上的意思
I busted my ass to play by the rules,
我用尽全身力气一辈子循规蹈矩
and here's my reward.
现在这就是我的奖励
I'm 66 years old, and I get to live
66岁必须一个人过剩下的日子
the rest of my life without the woman I love.
没有我心爱的女人在身边
God and I made a deal.
上帝和我达成了协议
He did not come through on his end.
但他现在单方面毁约了
Thanks for sharing, Dan.
谢谢你的分享丹
We hope you keep coming back.
我们希望你能一直来
Anyone else want to share?
还有其他人想分享吗
Uh, excuse me.
不好意思
A-Aren't you gonna come in?
你们难道不要进来参与一下吗
We came in and listened.
我们参与了啊聆听了
Don't you feel better now that you've shared?
你分享后不觉得好一点吗
No.
没有
No, I don't.
真的我没有
Well, it takes time.
你还需要时间
Paulie.
保利
My wife is gone 20 years ago to the day,
到今天我妻子已经离开了20年了
and it still feels like it was yesterday.
我现在感觉恍如昨日
Now, I may have told this story before,
我可能之前讲过这个故事
but I picked up this book...
但是我拿起书的时候
I'm sorry to interrupt, I'm sorry to interr...
很抱歉打断你我很抱歉
I was gonna leave, but then you stood up
我就要走来着但是你就站起来了
and started talking, and it got personal,
然后就开始讲故事了说的很好
but I really didn't want to stay for the whole thing.
但是我真的不想在这儿待着了
Uh...
额
Here we are.
就这样吧
Uh...
额
Feel better, everybody.
祝大家感觉好点儿
Darlene says we got to get going.
达琳说我们得走了
Nothing like having a grumpy atheist
没什么比一个脾气暴躁的无神论者
wake you up at 7:00 in the morning
在早上7点叫醒你
telling you you're gonna be late to church.
告诉你去教堂要迟到更糟糕的了
I'm gonna have to meet you there.
我会去那儿找你的
I need a couple of minutes to finish this bike
这摩托还得花上我几分钟时间
and load it on the trailer.
然后把它装在拖车上
You sold the bike?
你要卖♥♥摩托吗
Yeah.
对
I'm delivering it to the new owner
从教堂出来后我就要把它
right after church.
交给新主人了
Your mom didn't want me riding it, anyway.
反正你妈妈死活不愿意让我骑摩托
She was afraid I'd get killed
她怕我万一要是死了
and she'd have to raise you alone.
她得一个人抚养你长大
She said "You helped make this mess,
她老说这烂摊子是你的
you're not dumping it all on me."
别想把它甩给我
So, when you lost Mark...
所以你失去马克的时候
did you ever find a cure for waking up every morning
你有没有找到每天早上醒来能够不再找他
and looking for him?
的解决办法
Darlene and I got drunk one night and talked about...
我和达琳有一天晚上喝醉了谈到
how I never really sat still long enough
我怎么从来没有坐下来
to make sense of it all.
好好想一想这一切
So, I went home
所以我就回家
and parked myself in a chair for a week,
让自己在沙发上待了一个星期
and by blocking out all the noise in my life,
并阻隔我生活中所有的噪音
I got some clarity,
我终于想通了
and I figured out how to move forward.
我明白了该怎么向前看
So, you did it all by yourself?
所以你是一个人想通的
Then why were you pushing me to sit around,
那你为什么还要逼我坐在一群
talk to a bunch of strangers in a group?
陌生人中间和他们交谈
Because it kind of helped.
因为那会对你有帮助
And everyone was really concerned about you,
大家都那么关心你
and I didn't want it to seem like I didn't care.
我不想看起来我并不在乎你
Oh, so you don't care.
所以你是不在乎我咯
No. I just know you.
不我只是了解你
Nobody's gonna tell you how to fix something.
没有人会告诉你如何解决问题
Time to go.
该走了
How long do we have to stay?
我们得在那儿待多久
Just long enough for God to see your face.
只要让上帝看到你的脸就行
And by God, I mean Geena.
上帝的话我是说吉娜
So, when are we gonna get back out there
所以我们什么时候回去
and finish that polling project?
把投票项目完成
I kind of changed it into an essay.
我已经把它改成写文章了