别担心，他不会走远的

I'm sorry. Well...
事实是 我得了心脏癌
As a matter of fact, I have cancer of the heart.
跟你说说你的"可怜我"的后果 好吗
And just let me tell you something about your "poor me"s, okay?
你不停的说"可怜我 可怜我"
You keep it up, "poor me, poor me",
然后你就发现其实你在说
and you're gonna find yourself saying,
"可怜我"点酒吧
"Pour me another drink."
而且根据记录
And for the record,
我刚来的时候是一个又肥又没用的婆娘
when I first came here, I was a fat, worthless cow.
但是我用了这12步秘诀
But I worked these 12 steps,
后来我就过了点像样的生活
and I carved out a little bit of a life for myself.
对不起 里芭
I'm sorry, Reba.
对不起 在座的各位
I'm sorry, everybody.
没关系 这都是意料之中的
It's okay. It's expected.
没关系的 约翰
It's okay, John.
你正慢慢步入正轨 宝贝儿
You're right on schedule, sweetheart.
我真高兴你来了 我就想跟你说这个
And I'm glad you're here. I want to tell you that.
-谢谢 -你能过来我很高兴
- Thank you. - I'm glad you're here.
我喜欢你们
I like you GUYS-
你们真♥他♥妈♥的疯狂
You're fucking crazy.
我们也喜欢你 哥们
We like you, too, man.
等我们熟了就不一定了
Well, wait till you get to know me.
哥们
Hey, bro.
能来一口吗
Shot of that wine?
见鬼 我自己还一口没喝过
Goddamn it, I haven't even had my first fucking drink.
我衬衫右口袋里还有一瓶
There's one in my right shirt pocket here.
夹克下面 来拿吧 新的一夸脱
The jacket here. Go get it. It's another quart.
好的 谢谢
Okay, great. Thanks, now.
卡茨先生会接待你
Mr. Katz will see you.
谢谢
Oh, thank you.
下午好
Afternoon.
下午好
Good afternoon.
非常感谢您抽空见我
Thanks so much for taking the time to see me.
客气了
Not at all.
-需要我做什么 -我叫约翰·卡拉汉
- What can I do for you? - My name is John Callahan.
于1950年出生在圣文森特医院
I was born in 1950 at the old Saint Vincent's Hospital.
关于生母我知道三点
I know three things about my real mother:
她是爱尔兰裔美国人 红发
she was Irish-American, she had red hair,
是位教师
she was a school teacher.
还有 她不想要我
Oh, yeah. And she didn't want me.
所以 是四点
So, four things.
总之 我希望你能帮我找到她
Anyway, I was hoping you could help me find her.
我画了幅我认为符合她的速写
I-I made this sketch of what I think she might look like.
或许能帮你找到
Maybe it'll help you out.
画得很好
it's very nice.
卡拉汉
Callahan.
约翰
Yeah, John.
老圣文森特医院
Old Saint Vincent's Hospital.
我们来瞧瞧
Well... let's see.
这真是我的档案吗
That's really my file?
是的 就是这个
All right. This is the one.
是这个吗 给我瞧瞧
That's it? Let me look at it.
不如我们坐回那边
How about we go back over there?
好的
All right.
上面写了什么
What's it say?
卡拉汉先生 我无能为力
Well, Mr. Callahan, there's little I can do.
等等 你看见了
Wait. No, you saw something.
-卡拉汉先生 -上面有什么
- Mr. Callahan. Mr. Callahan. - What's in there? What'd you...
俄勒冈州州有法律规定
The State of Oregon has a law.
别管俄勒冈州的法律了 别这样
Forget the State of Oregon, man. Come on.
卡拉汉先生 我会丢掉工作的
Mr. Callahan, I could lose my job.
-我真的无能为力 -上面到底写了什么
- There's just nothing I can do. - Wait, what does that say?
那 那是玛姬·琳琪吗
Is that... is that "Maggie Lynch"?
-我无可奉告 卡拉汉先生 -是她名字吗
- I can't say, Mr. Callahan. - Is that her name?
-玛姬·琳琪 -卡拉汉先生 无可奉告
- Maggie Lynch? - Mr. Callahan, I can't say.
什么叫无可奉告 就写在上面
What do you mean you can't say? It's written down right there.
我刚看见了 是她名字吗 玛姬·琳琪
I just saw it. Is that her name, Maggie Lynch?
卡拉汉先生 我不能丢了工作
Mr. Callahan, I am not gonna lose my job.
去你的工作
Screw your job, man.
你八成都已经在这桌子旁稳坐
You've probably been sitting behind
他妈的25年了
this desk for 25 fucking years.
-出去 -你活得真糟糕
- Get out. - You have a miserable life.
-男人一回吧 -出去
- Be a man! - Get out.
真该死
Aw, go fuck yourself.
大概是电池或者接触问题
Maybe it's your battery or a connection or something.
到了
There you are.
-你有多的二十五美分吗 -当然
- Could you spare a quarter? - Yeah.
二 三 四
Two-three-four...
二 四 五 九
Two-four-five-nine.
好了
Here you go.
谢谢您 先生
Thank you, sir.
别客气
You bet.
残疾人援助中心
Disability Resource Center.
是我 约翰
Hey, it's John.
稍等
Just a moment.
我是苏姗妮
This is Suzanne.
苏姗妮 我是约翰
Hey, Suzanne. It's John.
我轮椅坏了 能来个人帮帮我吗
My chair broke down. Could somebody come down here to help me?
约翰
John?
约翰 这是近几个月来
John, this is the third time
第三次发生了
in a couple of months this has happened.
新总统上任后 我们遭受财务削减
You know, we have cutbacks ever since the new president came in.
-我们也有难处 -别又这样
- We have our own problems. - Oh, please don't start.
别这样 苏姗妮
Please don't start. Suzanne...
约翰 很抱歉 但规则不是我定的
John, I'm sorry, I do not make the rules.
我怎么你了
What did I do to you?
我做了什么 把你惹成这样
What did I do to piss you off so much?
-你为什么这样对我 -你知道
- Why you gotta treat me like this? - You know,
我听说 你轮椅的里程数
I hear you're putting a lot more mileage on that wheelchair
远超负荷
than the average quadriplegic.
是啊 因为我是个能动的劳动者
Yeah, because I'm an active worker!
不是该死的家养植物
I'm not a fucking nursing home vegetable!
所以我只是请求得到一点帮助
So I'm just asking for a little bit of goddamn help!
-保重 约翰 -苏姗妮
- Take care, John. - Suzanne,
拜托 我他妈的求求你了
please, please, I fucking beg you.
-我请你原谅 -请保重自己
- I ask for forgiveness! - Take care of yourself, please.
拜托
Please, please!
小组的目的之一
One of the objectives of group
是要我们重新正视情感上
is to provoke a new awareness to unwanted
遭遇或搁置的 不堪或
or unnecessary emotional problems that we sit with.
不必要的问题 如果仅是一人忍♥受
And left unprovoked, we sit alone with these problems,
那么这些问题就会演变为
and they can fester into...
酗酒 嗑药 赌博
drinking habits, drug habits, gambling.
别的恶习
Other bad habits.
别的恶习 是什么
What are "other bad habits"?
我是说 什么都有可能
I mean, it could be anything.
可能是囤积障碍 抢银行 自杀
It could be hoarding, bank robbing, suicide.
会发生的 小姐
It happens, amiga.
麦克
Mike.
何不讲讲你的故事
Why don't you tell us your story.
讲讲你的受雇史 从头开始讲
Talk about your employment; start from the beginning.
公♥司♥名字叫什么
What was the name of the company?
伯恩赛德勘探系统技术
Burnside Exploratory Systems Technology.
我们简称伯技
And we called it BEST for short.
我
I, uh...
有一位我不怎么关注的上司
had an administrator there I didn't care for very much.
那时公♥司♥势态紧张 在我任职期间
Once a war going on, and she didn't care
她压根不在乎我们的输赢
whether we were winning or losing when I worked there,
丢给我们一堆破事
and we were handed a lot of bullshit.
慢些 麦克 你
Slow down, Mike. Y-You...
-她 是指你的上司 -是的
- She, meaning your administrator? - Yeah.
对 她