好好照顾玛雅：虐儿案罗生门（2023）

‎凯尔在哪里？
Where's Kyle?
‎-他在那里 ‎-你好
There he is. -Hello
‎-我的男人怎么样了？ ‎-很好
How's my man? -Good
‎所以昨天早上
So, yesterday morning
‎我们接到指令 ‎说我们可以进行审理了
we got an order telling us we could go to trial
‎我们欣喜若狂
And we were ecstatic
‎然后大约在1:30
Then, around30
‎我们接到了第二区域上诉法♥院♥的 ‎第二个指令
we get the second order from the Second District Court of Appeals
‎停止审理
to stay the trial
‎所以
So
‎我们周一不会进行庭审了
we're not gonna go to trial Monday
‎你会没事吧 玛雅？
Are you gonna be okay, May?
‎-应该吧 ‎-我们一定会扳倒他们
I guess. -We're gonna get 'em
‎-但是… ‎-我们可以
But-- -We got 'em
‎只是需要
It's just a… -Hey
多一点时间 - ‎玛雅
…little more time. -Maya
‎我们这种话听多少年了？
That's what we've been told for how many years?
‎玛雅 听我说
Maya, listen.
‎我可以这样告诉你
I can tell you this
‎他们现在没有立案
They don't have a case at trial
‎是因为他们非常努力反抗 ‎不想让我们进入法庭
because they're fighting so hard to keep us out of the courtroom
‎他们最不想发生的事情就是
The last thing they want on the planet
‎看到考尔斯基一家三个人 ‎在证人席上讲述他们的故事
is seeing the three Kowalskis on that witness stand telling their story
‎坚持不懈才会胜利
It's perseverance that wins the day here
‎（等待他们开庭日四年后）
‎（第二区域上诉法♥院♥推迟了审理）
‎（推迟他们 ‎允许本案惩罚性赔偿的决定）
‎他们害怕案件进入法庭
They're scared for us being in the courtroom
‎他们在不惜一切阻止我们上法庭 ‎不断推迟
They're just doing everything they could to keep us out and keep delaying it
‎我们作为一家人 不想感觉被击败
I just don't want us as a family to feel defeated
‎失去我妈妈
Losing my mom
‎然后所有压力放到爸爸身上
and then all the stress that's put on my dad
‎试着管理好两个孩子 ‎还要经历这一切
trying to manage having kids, and then going through all this
‎我不想让我们余生的日子 ‎都这样去想
I just don't want us to live the rest of our lives knowing that
‎怎样去想？
Knowing what?
‎想我们失败了
That we lost
‎就算案件被撤销或者推♥翻♥
Even when cases had been dropped or overturned
‎伤害也已经造成了
the damage had been done
‎对孩子的伤害已经造成了
Kids had been traumatized
‎父母的名誉也损坏了
parents had their reputations destroyed
‎虽然对我的指控取消了 ‎我没有被判做错任何事
Even though my charges were dropped, and I was found of no wrongdoing
‎还是有人给我发消息 ‎说我应该自杀
I had people messaging me, telling me that I should kill myself
‎说我的孩子活该去寄养家庭
that my children deserved to be in foster care
‎说他们希望我永远无法要回孩子
and they hoped I never got them back
‎他们试着分开我和她爸爸
They tried to divide her father and I
‎他们想让我们争吵 ‎想让我们互相怪罪
They wanted us to argue. They wanted us to blame each other
‎我失去了很多朋友
I lost a lot of friends
‎我失去了家 失去了我的工作
I lost my home, my job
‎我的女儿
my daughter
‎我试着学会不要去想这件事 ‎因为她现在已经回家了…
I've learned to try not to think about it because, you know, she's home now, and…
‎抱歉
Sorry
‎没有人会还给你
Nobody ever pays you back
‎你花在律师和专家上的钱
for the money that you spent on lawyers and experts and attorneys
‎你会负债累累 我们就差宣布破产了
and you go into debt. You know, we almost filed for bankruptcy
‎真的很疯狂
It's just crazy
‎我在监狱坐牢了超过300天 ‎他们才终于撤销了指控
I spent over 300 days in jail before they finally dropped the charges
‎他们因为这件事毁掉了我的人生
They ruined my life because of it
‎这种感觉非常恐怖
It's just a very scary feeling
‎知道别人的片面之词 ‎也能改变一个人的人生
to know that somebody's words can be so life changing
‎虐待儿童的儿科医生要面对很大压力
There's a lot of pressure on child-abuse pediatricians
‎才能够明确地说
to be able to say definitively
‎这是虐待 或者发生了事故
that this was abuse, or that this was an accident
‎但这些案件太复杂了
But these kinds of cases are way too complicated
‎不只黑白分明的
to be black and white
‎通常都是中间的灰色地带
Often they're in a gray area
‎所以如果只有一个人的话语 ‎有着黄金的重量
So when there is just one person whose word is like gold
‎观点、解读、看法、偏见 ‎就会开始起作用
opinions, interpretation, perspectives, bias starts to play in
‎开始扮演非常重大的角色 ‎甚至可能很危险
and starts to play a huge, huge role, and it can be a dangerous one
‎从2016年 ‎我就一直给莎莉·史密斯写圣诞贺卡
Since 2016, I've been writing Sally Smith a Christmas card
‎把我们家庭的照片放在上面
with our family's picture on it
‎提醒她 有一个她努力 ‎破坏的家庭 但她没有成功
so she's reminded of a family that she tried to break apart but didn't
‎她有一年给我回复了 我很意外
She wrote me back one year, which I was very surprised
‎她是这样说的
and this is what she said
‎“亲爱的格拉哈姆先生和太太 ‎我又收到了你们的卡片”
"Dear Mr. and Mrs. Graham, I received your card again
‎我只想说 很遗憾你们依然对
and just wanted to say I'm sorry you're still so angry
‎调查你们儿子的事情中 ‎我扮演的角色感到愤怒”
about my part in the investigation regarding your son."
‎“皮内拉斯县确实有着
"There are definitely a disturbing number
‎惊人数量的虐待和忽视儿童案件”
of abused and neglected children in Pinellas County."
‎“你强烈感觉你的儿子不是其中之一 ‎我非常理解”
"I understand you feel very strongly that your son wasn't one of them."
‎“你在留言中提到
"You mentioned in your note
‎崔斯坦被发现有另一个诊断
that Tristan was found to have another diagnosis
‎如果你有机会
and if you have a chance
‎我非常想听听那个诊断是什么
I would very much like to hear what that was
‎让我下次能够好好考虑”
so I can consider it appropriately next time."
‎“我非常努力做到彻底 去做对”
"I try very hard to be thorough and get it right."
‎“但可能
"But perhaps…"
‎我考虑‘灰色地带’需要更加小心
"…I need to be careful to consider the 'gray areas.'"
‎确实有灰色地带
If there's gray areas
‎这只是基于她的观点
this is just based on her… her opinion
‎有太多案件
There's been so many cases
‎太多家庭因为被错误指控 ‎受到了影响
so many families that have been affected and wrongly accused
‎你能被允许错几次 ‎毁掉多少人的人生 然后才能说
How many times are you allowed to be wrong and destroy lives before they say
‎“好了 够了吗？ ‎我们需要做出一些改变了”
"Okay, that's enough. It's time that we change some things"?
‎到底需要付出什么代价？
What is it truly gonna take?
‎（2022年五月 ‎考尔斯基一家被准许举♥行♥听证会）
‎（对案件的继续审理 ‎做出最后的诉讼抗辩）
嘘
Shh
‎没关系
It's okay
‎对 没关系
Yeah, it's okay
‎H法庭室
Courtroom H
‎他们阻止了我们周一进行陪审团选择
They stopped us from having our jury selection on Monday
‎现在是周二
It is now Tuesday
‎我们还有一个机会 ‎走到法官面前 然后…
and we have one more chance to go in front of the judge and, uh…
‎看我们能否继续审理这个案件
see if we could continue to have this trial
‎明天开始陪审团选择
starting tomorrow with the jury selection
‎如果不行 我们可能还要再忍♥受一年
If not, we'd probably have to live with this for another year
‎我们真的需要给这件事画一个句号♥了 ‎这段经历真的太恐怖了
We just gotta get off this ride. It's a horrible ride
‎昨晚 我写了一个陈述
Last night, I wrote a statement that I'd like to tell the court today
‎我想今天在法庭上讲述
‎我希望他们能 ‎终于听进去一次我说的话
and I'm hoping that they could finally hear me for once
‎我想让他们知道 我妈妈是个好人
I want them to know my mom was a good person
‎我想让他们知道 她有多坚强 ‎决心有多大
I want them to know how strong she was and how determined she was
‎我觉得我去法庭上 主要是为了她
I think I'm mainly going there for her
‎这个案件的审理对他们意味着一切
This trial means everything to them
因为不进行审理 就没办法画上句号♥
because, without this, there's no closure
‎他们需要世界听到他们的故事
They need the world to hear their story
‎这不意味着能修正这件事 ‎但至少这件事终于可以…翻页了
It doesn't mean you fix it, but at least they can finally… move on
‎全体起立 ‎萨拉索塔县第12司法巡回法♥院♥
All rise. This 12th Judicial Circuit Court in and for Sarasota County
‎现在开庭
is now in session
‎尊敬的亨特·卡罗尔法官主持
The Honorable Hunter Carroll presiding
‎所有人请坐
Please be seated, everyone
‎我把2000个案子放到一边 ‎才让这次审理能够进行
I moved 2,000 cases to make this trial happen
‎但我们现在错过了开始案件的
but we are now getting past the window of opportunity
‎机会窗口
to start the case
‎这就是我现在的感觉
That… That's just where I'm at
‎我理解 法官
I understand that, Judge
‎但也有情有可原的情况
but there's extenuating circumstances here
‎我有能力把案子精简到
and I have the ability to cut the case down
‎最低限度 来让这个案子完结
to the bare minimum to get the case done
‎你怎么绕过第二区域上诉法♥院♥
How do you get around the Second District Court of Appeal
‎他们已经停止审理了？
having stayed the trial?
‎我的意思是 我不能说 ‎我可以选择陪审团 但不进行审理
I mean, I… I can't say I can do jury selection but not the trial
额…
Uh…