爱与死亡（2023）

有间新夜店刚开幕 大家都说那裡很好玩
There's a new club, just opened up
and everybody's saying how fun it is.
不行，我得带孩子
I have to babysit the kids.
拜託，让派特去带吧
Oh, come on. Pat can watch them.
就几个小时，姊妹淘之夜
Couple of hours, girls' night out.
会很好玩的
It'll be fun.
有时候通往幸福的最佳途径 就是假装幸福
You know, sometimes the best path to happiness
is just to feign it.
屈服于幸福的假象
Just to give in to the illusion of it.
我以为我对艾伦就是这样
Well, I thought that's what I was doing with Allan.
连舌吻都不会的傢伙，我们去定了
Didn't even know how to French kiss.
We're going.
「我也很难谈论性」
"It's hard for me to talk about sex too.
「有时候很难达到 享受性♥爱♥所需要的那种」
Sometimes it's so hard to feel calm and quiet
「平静安宁的心态」
as you need to be to enjoy sex.
「我想放鬆 对我来说是最困难的部分」
I guess the relaxation part is the hardest part for me.
「所以在瑞士时喝一点酒 或很多酒会有帮助」
That's why, in Switzerland
a little, or a lot, of wine helped.
「这让我放鬆 让我能真正自♥由♥地享受它」
It relaxed me so I could really be free to enjoy it all.
「如果我需要酒 才能让性♥爱♥更愉悦的话」
Does this mean I'm not comfortable with sex
「这是否表示 我对性♥爱♥感到不自在？」
if I need wine to make love more pleasant?
「我不知道」
I don't know."
那让你有什麽感觉？
How does that make you feel?
我更加意识到妳的不安全感
Well, I feel...
more aware with your insecurities.
我不确定意识是一种感觉
I'm not sure that awareness is a feeling.
感觉的定义没有规则
There's no rule about what constitutes a feeling.
有，他们给我们的笔记本裡有写
Yes, it's in those workbooks that they gave us.
重点不是你怎麽想
It's not about what you think.
而是你的情绪反应
It's about how you emotionally respond.
意识到我对性♥爱♥的不安全感 不是一种感觉
Being aware of my insecurity over sex is not a feeling.
我们不该评断彼此的反应 上面是这样写的
We're not supposed to judge each other's reactions.
- It says that. - I've said several things
我针对性♥爱♥说了好多
specifically about sex.
而你完全没有回应
And you haven't really responded. At all.
我想我知道原因，艾伦
And I think I know...
why, Allan.
你不想要我
You don't desire me.
－那不是真的 －不，你从不碰我，你…
That is not true. - No, you never touch me, and you...
因为妳发出「别碰我」的讯息
Because you send the message, "Don't touch me."
这次夫妇恳谈会的…
The core principle...
核心原则就是诚实
of this Encounter is honesty.
艾伦，你对我有性趣吗？
Are you sexually attracted to me, Allan?
我跟妳保证我有
I promise you I am.
我有
I am.
听着
Hey.
怎麽了？
What?
我一直很担心和害怕你不想要我
I've been so worried and scared that you don't want me.
你对我没有慾望 也许你甚至不再爱我了
That you don't desire me. That maybe you don't even...love me anymore.
那不是真的，我爱妳，真的
Well, that's not true. I do. I love you.
贝蒂，我想要妳
Betty, I desire you.
我们在这裡正是因为我想要妳
We're here because I desire you.
因为我很想妳
Because I miss you.
我想做
I'd like to fornicate.
我想
I'd like to.
领受圣体
Body of Christ, given for you.
我意识到我的感觉 并不是「我不喜欢妳」
I realized that what I was feeling was not "I don't like you"
而是我对妳不会感到兴奋
but more like "I don't feel excited about you
因为我太习惯现状了
because I'm too used to the way things are."
领受圣体
Body of Christ, given for you.
我想分享更多妳的感受
I want to share a lot more of your feelings
我也想跟妳分享我的感受
and I want to be able to share mine with you.
一想到你会更常不在家 我就会恐惧地想起那段时光
When I think of your being gone more, I remember those times with dread.
领受圣血
Blood of Christ, shed for you.
－那种孤独 －领受圣血
The aloneness.
Blood of Christ, shed for you.
我从不担心自己独自在家是否安全
I never really felt fear for my safety at home alone
但孤独一人
but the feeling of being alone...
是最糟糕的感觉
is the worst possible one to have.
彷彿身在黑暗的隧♥道♥裡
It's like you're in a dark tunnel
离光明还有很长一段路
and you've got a long ways to go to the light.
要等你安全回到家，才会重现光明
The light isn't there till you're home again
safe and sound.
有时你离开的时间让隧♥道♥变得很长
And sometimes the times you were gone
made the tunnel very long.
以上帝之名 我艾伦，愿意娶妳贝蒂为妻
In the name of God, I, Allan, take you, Betty, to be my wife.
从今以后，白头偕老
To have and to hold from this day forward.
从今以后，白头偕老
To have and to hold from this day forward.
无论顺境、逆境，富有或贫穷
For better or worse, richer or poorer.
无论顺境、逆境，富有或贫穷
For better or worse, richer or poorer.
无论顺境、逆境，富有或贫穷
For better or worse, richer or poorer.
我必爱护并珍惜妳
To love and to cherish.
我必爱护并珍惜你
To love and to cherish.
至死不渝
Until we are parted by death.
至死不渝
Until we are parted by death.
这是我神圣的誓言
This is my solemn vow.
这是我神圣的誓言
This is my solemn vow.
以主耶稣基♥督♥赋予我的权力
By the power vested in me by Jesus Christ, our Lord
我衷心感到荣幸
it is my sincere pleasure
能再次宣布你们结为夫妻
to repronounce you both
as man and wife.
－大家好 －你们好
Hi! - Hey!
你们好
Hey.
你好
Hi!
－亲爱的，玩得开心吗？ －开心
Hey, sweetie. You have fun? - Hi.
－还好吗？ －对
Yeah. Yeah. - You did?
－妳好 －怎麽样？
Hey. Great. - How was it?
－很棒 －你好
Pat, thanks again. - Hey, Allan!
当然，随时欢迎
Yeah, of course. Anytime.
太好了
Hey.Well, that...
我的小天使
There's my little angel!
她怎麽样？
How'd she do?
她很完美，就像小天使一样
Oh, she was perfect, like little angels are.
妳好
Hi.Here you go.
谢谢
Thank you.
真的很谢谢妳照顾她们
Thank you so much for taking them.
我感激不尽
I am beyond grateful.
你在开玩笑吗？我很喜欢她们来
Oh, are you kidding me? I love having them.
尤其是艾莉莎来的时候 珍妮的脾气就会比较好
Especially since Jenny is sweeter when Alisa comes over.
我好想妳，我的小女儿
I missed you, my little girl.
怎麽样？
So how was it?
太棒了
It was amazing.
是喔
Yeah?
真的很棒
It was really great.
太好了
Great.
我本来很怀疑，真的
I was skeptical. I really was.
但老实说，真的是太讚了
But, honest to God, it was the best thing.
妳和派特应该考虑一下
You and Pat, you should... you should think about it.
－我不是说你们需要 －可以走了，亲爱的
Not that you need it or anything. - All right. All set, honey.
好，我来了，再次感谢你们
All right. Here I come.- Thank you again so much.
随时欢迎…
Anytime.Anytime.
小心，
Careful.
可以吗？ -妳好
Got it? - Hey.
嘿
Hey.
贝蒂说还不错？
So it was good, Betty says.
比我想像中好太多了
Better than I could've imagined.
很高兴听到你那麽说
I'm glad to hear it.
－我再打电♥话♥给妳 －好
I'll call you. - Yep.
再见 再见
Bye!
好
All right.
这样应该可以了
That should do it.
再见
Bye.
－再见 －再次谢谢你们
Bye. - Thanks again, guys.
－再见 －好
Bye, Jenny. - Yeah.
－谢谢你 －再见
Thank you for... - Bye-bye!
－再见 －再见