皮卡游戏（2019）

但是 我想澄清这不是我教授的内容
but I do just wanna clarify that's not what I teach.
任何一个我的客户都没有这样做过
None of my clients do this,
而且我也不会强迫我的客户去这么做
and I don't make my clients do this, either.
每个人的注意力只有一到两周
The life of anyone's attention span is a week or two.
所以 一两周之后 他们对一个人的注意就会消失
So, after a week or two, it's likely to fade away again,
然后就去关注其他人了
and there'll be someone else to pick on.
像拉塞尔·布兰德或者其他人 我不知道
Russell Brand or whatever, I don't know.
恶心的"搭讪艺术家"在澳大利亚被迫离境
他上传了他将女性头部按向自己胯部的视频后
引发了大规模的抗♥议♥
研讨会主办者向男性收取数千元费用
教授"瓦解"女性防御心理的办法
媒体对朱利安
What the media did with Julien,
和他们对其他的搭讪导师没什么区别
they would have done with any of the pickup instructors.
事实上 有人录下来
Just the fact that someone
他们搭讪并且最后勾引上♥床♥的过程
would record themselves picking up women
这种行为是有问题的
and sleeping with them is questionable in itself.
这个女人不知道她被录下来了
A woman doesn't know that she's being filmed.
这个女人也不知道这个人跟她搭讪
A woman doesn't know that the person picking her up
是为了证明给一些学生看
is doing it to prove something to some students.
你觉得这对我很公平么 你已经有了我
还想跟她在一起
她相信她和他上♥床♥
She believes that she's sleeping with this guy
是因为这个男人喜欢她
because this guy generally likes her
并且愿意和她发展一段恋爱关系
and he wants to have a relationship,
或者愿意和她上♥床♥ 但是是双方同意的
or wants to have sex with her, but on a consensual basis.
她完全不知道这是为了生意
She has absolutely no idea that this is for a business.
直到那个时间点 如果你研究我的招牌
Up until that point, if you look at my brand,
我就是个新人
I was the like the new guy,
我很有趣 比如说"大家好啊"
I was like funny, like, "Hey guys!"
然后人们会说 "天啊"
And then people were like, "Holy shit,
"这个年轻的男生刚刚被打了一巴掌"
"There's this young dude and he just got slapped,"
"然后他就站在那里 没抓狂"
"and he's standing there, and he's not freaking out."
"他太酷了"
"He's like cool."
我收到上千条消息
I got like thousands of messages,
RSD麦克斯的"自然"产品发布会
真的有上千条
like literally thousands of messages,
写着"哥们 偶像啊"
like, "Hey dude, respect."
我认为 对于一个年轻的男性来说
I think if you take a young guy
要是能有兄弟情义 英雄崇拜
and you couple camaraderie, hero worship,
有引起高♥潮♥的力量 对异性的性征服
and like the power of the orgasm, and sexual conquest
保罗·詹卡
吸引力公式创始人 哈佛大学毕业生
以及你怀中还有个美丽的姑娘
and how much having a beautiful girl on one's arm
是我们对于这个社会的社会认同感
is like socially validating in our society and all that,
这些放在一起 就变成了毒酒
put that all together and it's like an intoxicating brew
很容易让年轻男生容易沉浸其中
for a young guy to get caught up in.
太刺♥激♥了
It's so potent.
而最可怕的是 你建立一个这样的生意
The real gold dust is when you build a business
就像你采访过的其他人一样
like some of these other guys you've interviewed,
他们不但得到认可
and not only are you getting the validation,
还得到了生理上的征服愉悦感
and you're getting a physical pleasure of conquest,
而且你又有钱赚
but you're also getting paid
能赚好几千块钱
thousands of dollars to do this,
简直就是雪上加霜
it's like the perfect storm.
这里你们谁喜欢玩电子游戏
Who here likes to play video games?
请举手 好的 好的
Hands up, yeah, yeah.
向高手学习
男人中的传奇 保罗·詹卡
成为泡妞大♥师♥
曾经有几年我能每年能赚一两百万
It was a $1-$2 million business for a several years,
但是我在30多岁时因结婚离开了这个生意
but I got off the merry-go-round in my mid 30s.
会员优享
吸引力公式电子书
保罗·詹卡独家教学
高级培训视频
我实际上 在结婚之前
I actually had, prior to getting married,
大概有6个长♥期♥的恋爱关系
probably six long-term relationships.
所以我从来不是一个认为
So, I never was a guy who thought
这是唯一一种生活方式的男人
this was the only way to live.
搭讪大♥师♥为何步入婚姻的坟墓 请见保罗·詹卡独家专访
当我选择结婚的时候 有很多人
As I approached marriage, there was a lot of people
这家伙泡不到妞了 所以才结婚
认为我让他们失望了
who felt I had let them down.
死废物
你怎么能这样呢 老兄
How could you, man?
简直是背叛
What a betrayal.
他的生意就是个圈套 我只是为那些不知情的人指出这点 他不会有好结果的
我以为你是
I thought you were gonna like,
你是我的偶像呢 结果现在你放弃了
you were my hero and now you've given up.
但是 他们生气了 他们不喜欢我这样
But man, yeah, they got pissed, they didn't like it.
但是这就引出这个问题 他们希望我做什么
But it begs the question, like what they did want me to do?
就想让我一辈子都活在不切实际的生活中
Just like ride off on my horse into the horizon?
这个状态到70岁时可就不好看了
This isn't a good look at 70, man.
还有很多无法言喻的 或者说没料到的
Well a lot of the unspoken stuff, or unheralded,
就是这种男人的社区感
is the sense of male community in these places.
有些与外界隔离的男生
Some of these guys who are socially isolated
实际上在这里找到了兄弟情义
actually have found a brotherhood,
甚至 甚至和女人没什么关系
and it's even, it's not even really about the women.
而更多的是和其他男人建立友谊和归属感
It's more about the other men and the sense of acceptance,
加入并属于这个群体
and joining, and belonging.
看看我这新鞋
Look at these bad boys.
一年前 你们理解那种感受
当所有的事情都进展顺利
但是你对自己却感觉不好么
你们懂我什么意思吗
保罗 又称"狐狸"
搭讪课程学生
这可能有些难以表达 但是
我真的很需要找到生活的意义
可以让我去体验 追求 成长的事情
你对我的帮助太大了
我的人生真的成长了很多
真的很抱歉
是啊 这就是我想说的 真的非常感谢各位
这就是全部了
下一个是谁
Who's up next?
当你意识到这些学生有多么
When you think about how much students
崇拜他们的导师
idolize their instructors,
很难不认为搭讪公♥司♥是个邪教组织
it's hard not to see pickup companies as cults.
因为这些导师
Because the instructors
对学生的影响极大
have so much power over the students.
好了 如果你们可以都站起来一会儿
So, if you all stand up for a moment.
好的 所以我想让你们拉伸一下筋骨
All right, so, I want you to stretch out for a second.
谁看过电影斯巴达300勇士
Who's seen the film "300"?
都看过么
Yeah?
还记得斯巴达人的战斗口号♥么
Remember the war of cry the Spartans do?
我就要这么做了
I'm gonna do that.
所以我先这么做
So I'll do that first.
然后我们一起做 好么
And then we all do it together, yeah?
好的
Cool.
斯巴达人
So Spartans!
我们现在一起做 准备好了么
So now we do it altogether, are you ready?
斯巴达人
Spartans!
你不能质疑他们
You cannot question them,
知道吗 你必须按他们说的做
you know, you have to just follow it.
这些男人建立了个♥人♥崇♥拜♥
These guys build a cult of personality around themselves,
珍妮弗·李
打倒朱利安·勃朗话题建立者
有些追随者
and like, there are some followers
可能就是一般的追随者
who might be casual followers,
但是有些人就是盲目追随的狂热崇拜者
but then there are also like vapid fanboys
他们真的完全相信这些东西
who like, really believe in this stuff.
如果有人表示反对
And if anything, like contrary
别表现得像个臭婊♥子♥
反对他们说的话
to what these guys are saying.
他们就会说"你不是个真正的信徒”
It's like, "Oh well, then you're not a true believer."
你只是想让朱利安操你对吧
这就是你建立这个狗屁话题的原因 对不对 承认吧
真的很奇怪 完全有毒的
It's like it's so weird, and very toxic
你无法避免被整个社群厌恶的同时
you really can't be a reasonable human being at all
你就是个种族歧视的猪
做个真正理智的人
without getting loads of hate from that community.
我想向整个搭讪社区传达的信息是
The message that I wanna send to the whole pickup community is
油管频道 自然的四周
RSD就像一个教会
RSD is like a church
像一个天主教会或者佛教教会
it's like a Catholic church or like a Buddhist church.
人们对RSD态度像是宗教一样
People treat RSD like a religion.
真实社会动力学[RSD]前导师
阿莱克斯·詹姆斯和托德·瓦伦丁
它帮助人们定义他们自己
It helps them to define who they are,
帮助他们塑造未来
it helps them to form their future,